Today I burst into uncontrollable tears while driving to the beach.
It was happy it was sad it was cathartic.
I have so much to appreciate in this world and that all came crashing down on me in the 5 minutes it takes to get to the beach access nearest my apartment. I have my health and a job and people who love me and people I love.
I was afraid, almost to the point of reclusion, of feeling alone as the days approached for me to head to Florida. Yes, that does sound backwards, but it’s a defense mechanism for myself…if I shut people out I can’t get hurt or miss them, right? Our brains and logic are so messed up. Everyone said “you’re not alone” but I didn’t truly hear it until this morning. I’ve been in touch with at least one member of my tribe (most days multiple) since being gone and I know they’re all right next to me. Holding my hand, holding my heart and shouting “snap your hips!” with every swing I do. And my tribe is growing here too. What a concept.
A letter from a 5th grader recently reminded me “my life is awesome” and it’s so true. I’m writing this lying in the sun in mid-October. I mean, come on. A couple of my buddies took to their blogs to make a list of gratitude recently and it inspired me to do the same, but it hasn’t manifested until now. So I’m just going to take a moment to share some of my gratitude. I’m grateful for my mental, physical and emotional health. A job. A roof over my head. My mom and dad and brother. Knowing where my next meal is coming from. The MFF clubhouse and all its inhabitants. My incredible friends. The sunshine. Health insurance. The invention of the airplane. The baristas at Empire Coffee in Manhattan. My desire to know more, feel more, understand more. My aunts. The ability to laugh in the face of defeat and say “what’s next?” Morning podcasts and the auto function on the coffee maker.
It’s by no means comprehensive, but we’d be here all day. Most days I finish my meditation practice with gratitude and am surprised by the things or people or thoughts that come up and am reminded constantly that there is a never-ending list of things to be grateful for. That’s a really strong pillar to lean against when you think the world is coming down around you and you’re alone.
It’s not and you aren’t.
Swing update:
10/15 AM&PM:
15 x 11 sets = 165
10 x 10 sets = 100
20 x 2 sets = 40
= 305 x 2 = 610
10/16 AM:
15 x 14 sets = 210
10 x 11 sets = 110
PM:
15 x 10 sets = 150
10 x 10 sets = 100
320 + 250 = 570
10/17 BEACH SWINGS!
15 x 14 sets = 210
4 x 10 sets = 40
210 + 40 = 250
I forgot my gloves for the beach and I blistered up my hands pretty good and then also went paddleboarding so…rest is the name of the game for a day or two. SO CLOSE TO HALF WAY!
4,445
5,555 to go.
Let’s do it, team!